Sabtu, 25 Juli 2009

feeling is NO mistake

I've been wanting to say this for such a long time but it came to be such a biggy only now. How desires, feelings, perceptions or basically thoughts, be a mistake? It pops into your mind without anyone realizing or knowing unless you spill. Thank god that no one can read each other's mind cuz hoho, the world would either be such a happy place to live in or even a disaster.

I was just wondering, you know, people can't suddenly say that we are abnormal juz cuz we are unique or special in our own ways. I mean, for example, I enjoy eating chocolate eventhough maybe other people don't. And I just can't agree with the other people's perceptions anymore, cuz I really love chocolate so much. That there is nothing that you could do to make me eat less chocolate.

Or maybe another way is, I am what I am, I wouldn't want to be changed. I'm better off doing things my own way. Isn't that why Allah made us all different? That is how you see if people are sincere to us or not. They wouldn't change you, instead, they love you just the way you are.

What I'm trying to say is that, feelings are not mistakes. Don't judge other people's thoughts or decisions without knowing the reason behind it. We need to respect each other's opinions. That is how give and take works in a relationship. But if proved that their opinion really sucks, then try to make them see the greener grass on the other side. Maybe someday they will see the better.

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