underneath 'jelita'

What more could it be from the meaning of 'jelita'? When I get to know bout this song, I was wondering what would Cham (VE) wants to elaborate on the word 'jelita'. It got me quite dissapointed after reading the lyrics carefully. Cuz it only describes 'jelita' as in from outside, until I came to these words in the lyrics where it says,

Kejelitaan yang dilahirkan bukan penampilan

Kejelitaan lahir di dalam dan tak akan hilang

Then only I started to like this song. Without these words, the songs could've been unfair to any ugly women (no offence) with good heart out there. Same goes to me too, cuz I remember being the ugliest girl in my class (2006).

Honestly? The most 'jelita' women any man should've settled with are women who has 'jelita' heart. Men should REdefine the word 'jelita' in their brain dictionaries. True 'jelita' women are those who will make you feel so delighted to live with. Those whose heart are decorated with patience, honesty, love, responsible. A person who will give and take. In terms of giving away her goodness and take in your weaknesses.

Tell me, if there is any good to live with a woman who has the beauty face, fair skin, good hair, great teeth and such a wonderful smile BUT tolerance?? All she thinks about is herself without thinking of others. Live this life and expect a spotlight from everywhere. Ewww. I would always remind myself how people hate a 'miss I rule the world'. Therefore,

rendahkan suara dan pandangan,

kerana sebaik2 perempuan yang jelita adalah yang merendah diri

dan tidak berbangga dengan kejelitaan luarannya (ilusi optik).