crushing syndrome

Just recently when I went back home, I read the local magazine which attracted me with one of it's hot article which is 'Reasons of being rejected by a crush'. The most popular ones are:

1. You are not his taste or don't have the right criteria
2. You are not his mother's taste or don't have his mother's criteria.
3. You are no match to his girlfriend/crush.
4. You are way over your head cuz he is a way better person than you are in everything (social circle, cliques, studies, sports).
5. You are too girly, or too hard.

Truth is that, it's so hard to please others. You can't help crushing on people who happen to be 'not interested' in you. How far do you willing to go to hunt for his love? You change your appearance? Lose weight? Study harder cuz he is smart? Are you 100% sure that he will change his heart and start to like you? If he does, don't you think that he only likes you for something that you are not. How long are you going to maintain to be a stranger?

Wouldn't it be nice if that your special someone adores you for who you are? For better or worst, for healthy or sick, for up or down. They shouldn't love you for what's visible, instead, for what there is, which connects him to Allah SWT through you.

In any situation, he will always be there taking care of you, even when you are on you death bed waiting for your soul to be plucked as you are fighting for survival with stage 4 pulmonary cancer. Or patiently, bathe you when you have no will to move cuz you are in a comma. (in tears..sob3)

I desperately long for a husband like that. The one that loves you and takes you in even at your hardest time in your life, even if it'll trouble him big time, he will always be there for you. Besides, the one that never had in mind of remarry when you're gone from this world. That's the truest love ever. Therefore, love them who loves you for who you are and not the other way.