Living for almost 21 years old have so far taught me how there are just typical types of people with varieties of attitudes. Which some of you tend to be okay with but what about the attitude that you just can't seem to live under one roof with? Do you just give it all up or do you keep the heat inside and wait for the right moment to explode? Explode? Do you even have the guts to explode and tell people how annoyed you are with their attitudes? Or like saint people always do, they forgive and forget.
But for an average teenager like me will most likely to control myself and turn the 'positive' switch 'ON' all the time. Like I've always had it in my principe, that there has to be the 'GIVE AND TAKE' in every relationship in order for it to work out well. Each time, I face a nut case from any accquantaince of mine, I'll bear in mind that somehow I'd have to except their 'SHORTNESS'. Cuz technically, there is no one in this world who is perfect enough to be your friend. Even bestfriends argue all the time. What's best is to just TAKE in their weaknesses and find a way to forget.
Not just that,... you might wanna except the fact that you might be wrong in this matter too. And start to consider and pop this in your hard head "where did I go wrong?" and find the base of your argument cuz most of the time, two people have lost the idea of why they started yelling at each other in the first place.
But to some extend that when you have gotten to the phase when you've started to be freaking sick of that person, you might wanna say, maybe we're not meant to be 'that close'. (It means that two people do not have the same thing in common or in my language: ' two people are never in the same page'). You might wanna run into that person and still "hai" them everyday. Don't just shut that ukhuwah door of yours forever. That ain't right. Just remind yourself of their kindness and love that used to land on your misery sometimes ago. Don't abandone them just cuz of 'a' mistake, cuz trust me, that doesn't work in friendship.
Friends are more important than anything valueble you own. Don't risk it. haha especially over boys.
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