a friend in need is a ...

Why is there a need to satisfy other people's heart if we do not seem to afford it. Just learn to say no and be brave to bear their upset faces cuz that seems better than to make them smile and consequently suffer from that. Loving other's that much wouldn't do you any good if they themselves do no seem to return the favour plus, keeps on making demands out of your kindness. Let me tell you sumthin', you are so bullied, yes you are.

If they are making a decision and comparing you to another better person then stop impressing people who do not deserve you. A true friend wouldn't expect a thing from you, not even a birthday present . All they want, shall be a sincere companion.

Doesn't matter what situation you're in, you ought to know your limit. Doing good deeds would be nice sometimes, but other people should know your condition for contributing. Cuz honestly, there are people who seems to careless bout other's condition and keeps on taking and give less. These people claim themselves to be our friend though still they keep asking but never realize that they are actually sucking out our blood to death. Please, a friend has to be sensitive enough to see you being in a cyanosis condition!