it's not what they want, it's what He wants

perception of characteristics indifference

can really be that subjective when judging other's is by listening to what they have to say bout YOU.

Get what I meant by these? To know what other's are like is rather simple, that is to ask them what they think of you. They must be at a point be confessing their disatisfactory towards you.

Let's say if you are claimed to be insensitive towards other people's feelings, you always say things the way you feel like saying without thinking of the consequences. Indirectly, that person is showing how sensitive she normally is that she can't bear your insensitive words.

Do take into account of what they have to say, coz you will reveal more of what they trully are. Thus, you can be the one who get to care towards their needs. Although, to make people love us is not an easy job. It's a hard job done TO SATISFY EVERYONE.To satisfy everyone is the secret to failure.

Therefore, just be yourself and careless of what the majorities wish to say. Coz you know who you are, and care only HIS view towards you, coz again, HE will be the one to tell you which path you're going, it's either Firdaus or Jahannam, there's no such thing as moderate or between those two. So, give it much thought ait!

Berdoalah agar hati kita agar jangan pernah dibolak balikNya. Sesungguhnya
tempat di syurga itu atas KEREDHAANNYA, bukan atas amal kebajikan didunia.