I have my own reason and right to be quiet bout certain things. You'd probably understand that. Sometimes, you do not feel like to talk it over and choose to be silence instead of hovering it off to everyone you meet. Here are why?
- You don't have any besties
Well, not everyone can understand you, they could be either a good listener or a good advisor, but that doesn't mean that they feel you. Only the ones that have gone through what you are going through can give her full feel and concentration.
- You may hurt someone else for talking about it
Think before you throw. Cuz there are 90% possibility that you may lost one of your bestie because of your words. If you trust her to be insensitive type of person, that it just might be ok with her. However, a disaster will happen if it turns out the other way.
- You are ashamed of the stinking fac
You are afraid of humiliating yourself with the embarasing truth. Well, you have the right to keep it down low.
- It will only make things worst
Things are best be kept quiet, you don't want a panicking truth gives a plasebo effect on an uncertain matter. For example, you heard bout an incoming earthquake that'll attack your hometown, you were so panic that you scare everyone to death and told them that an earthquake is really coming when in reality, it's just a rumour that you heard. So if you are a person with high enthusiasm, make sure you think rationally before you act. Put your feelings aside.
- You are afraid if you happen to blurt out the nasty stuff (especially bout other people)
Story telling is a gift, your excitiation of story telling emerge, even when you didn't mean to get excited in the first place and planned to go low pro. You love telling away stuffs that sometimes, you might blurt unexpected bombshell.
