LIKE and LOVE

Ok hai girlfrens! On this new post, I'd like to talk about cINTA. Ape tu adik2? haha. Actually, I believe seme peringkat umur must have been in love before, but what you haven't been into is a relationship. So I nak share je pretty much about how you find Mr. Right. *ok a bit awkward since I'VE NEVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP BEFORE*.

So here goes as me and my parents was out in the car to somewhere and I asked mum a question that leads to this hot topic. I realize that they talk openly with me, about this. Sort of like a mini lecture on how to choose Mr. Right.

So good relationship actually consists of two things, they are 'LIKE' and 'LOVE'.

So what does LIKE means? It simply means, that you're having interest in someone because of what they are. Walaupon org cakap hidung dia senget, gigi jongang, hitam macam burung gagak atau macam budak2, loyar buruk, clumsy nak mampuih, gewdiks giler... You will still love them no matter what because, those are what attracts you to them. That's the healthy LIKE here.

Now, the wrong LIKE, is when you like them because you know he's born with silver spoons and gold goblets and what nots OR he is a brainy doctor to be OR anything MATERIALLISTIC. That!... boys and girls, ladies and gentleman is VERY WRONG INDEED. You can't find happiness in those things.

Let's mobilize to LOVE hoggeh? LOVE is there in your heart towards everyone you care about. But you use different definition for your boifren and girlfrens. As a girl, you call it KASIHAN towards yo girlfrens, but you call it LOVE towards yo solely boifren. But it does bring forward the same meaning that LOVE AND KASIHAN.

Now, that KASIHAN means that you 1) truly CARE for them OR PITY for if they happen to be in the deep water. Worry if he would ever pass his exams, if he has taken his lunch, if he has done his homework or what eva 2) ACCEPTing them for what they are dalam keadaan buruk sekali pon, you akan rase yg dia hensem. Dalam keadaan busuk belom mandi pon you rase dia wangi dan suh dia pegi mandi. Haa cmtulah lebey kurang. Dalam keadaan dia sakit tenat nak mampus pun ko jage dia kt death bed dia. Gtuhh.

Disamping you guys think of your future beings, you guys have to make sure that you like this person for no specific reason, that you can accept them, even if the reason is gone after marriage. Unless, the case is when you like them for being honest and then he became dishonest..than that shud definitely be questioned lah kann. I meant benda2 mcm beauty, popularity, kebendaan and material what nots.

Lagi satu, biarlah cari yang tak tinggal solat 5 waktu.. solat tu tiang agama hoggeh? Xde tiang, berderai agama. Pastu kalau nak cerita tentang keserasian memang la x habis post ni kann. Tp klo korg rase korg boleh terima dia punya bad side tu contohnye BENGIS, KEDEKUT, IGNORANT, NOT ROMANTIC, why not..but someday jangan komplen atau cakap korg punye gunung api meletus sbb remember, YOU CHOSED HIM already and u said that u are hoggeh with that.

ok so selamat mencari MR. RIGHT ok girls, gud luck :)