judging destroys

Saya terfikirkan something this morning and I feel I should put it down in here. So that someday when I scroll back my blog, I will remind myself of how I should handle the uncatered things which used to be a vegetable bed visited by blitz .

Have you ever felt that you're always right about things and no one else is ever ultimately more right than you are? And when you come across anybody whose point of view intereferences yours, you'd tell yourself that you cannot agree with it ever. Who are you to tell that you're always right and other people are wrong indeed?

You can never know when others turns out to be the right ones in the end. Thing is when you don't agree with something, just never tease or give low respect towards it. Even worst thing, is to be fiercely judging when you hardly know a person.

Don't judge that fast when you never know the bases, the traditions, the habits, the rules, the usuals, the personalities, the inner feelings of ANYONE. You don't know their feelings unless you ask them personally. So, even if they do the most irrational thing, do get one thing straight, that they did it for reasons.

So don't be judgemental and underespect other people for what they did which objective you know nothing of. That's very offensive to them when they have more to fret about than to think of your baseless opinion.

So last time when I posted a status of harsh remarks on facebook. My batch friend insulted me back publicly for posting such a status. Unfortunately he never knew what exactly happened. I was very angry the night I posted the stat. It wasn't even about him, so what's he to be mad bout back? Irrational ain't it? He insulted me, specifically about me being 'low performance student'. So as of till now, I never wanna be friends with em ever again even after he apologized. It's just too late. He destroyed my pride and a destroyed pride isn't equivalent to an apology.